Դա մութ է

taking myself on a date ♡ 

Դիտումներ 2.4մլն
99% 24 002 111

instagram ➭ @best.dressed
subscribe for weekly vids ➭ bit.ly/bestdressedfam
shop my thrift finds + presets ➭ www.bestdressedstore.com/
twitter ➭ @bestdressed
my second channel ➭ bit.ly/bestmess
In this vlog I take myself on a date doing all my favorite geeky activities. Spend a day in my life as I shop for plants, attend an open house in Hollywood, cook a romantic dinner for myself, rant about love and being single and relationship pressure in your 20’s, and go to Mumford & Sons concert alone.
top: yasmina (similar: bit.ly/2METM8C, bit.ly/2MO8SZs)
skirt: la apparel (bit.ly/2UeVsXo)
hair bow: urban outfitters (bit.ly/2K3Zh0T)
sneakers: fila disruptors (bit.ly/2Uk5ud9)
earrings: my design! (enroutejewelry.com/collections/bestdressed/products/pearl-leaf-earrings)
mona lisa by dan and drum(smarturl.it/dananddrum, dananddrum)
balloons by joakim karud
over rainbows and rainier by damien jurado (amdone.info/item/video/m8qzmrKe0HmwpZY)
foolish thoughts by the laidbackz
french music from epidemic sound ➭ bit.ly/2VW00n4
mumford and sons cover (amdone.info/item/video/ltTKl2yZp5i3dZo)
what’s your name? ashley
what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
how old are you? 21 (born in 1998)
how tall are you? 5'5"
what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
what equipment do you use to film?
➭ main camera: panasonic lumix gh5s (amzn.to/2Nb0W1z)
➭ 12-35mm lens (amzn.to/2JiSrz7)
➭ mic: rode videomic pro+ (amzn.to/2QHfZBU)
➭ vlog camera: canon powershot g7x mark ii (amzn.to/2DfL4cZ)
➭ canon m50 (amzn.to/2Dp1bnk)
➭ editing: final cut pro
FTC: Not sponsored. Some of the above links are affiliate links, meaning I earn a small percentage of sales made via those links, but it doesn’t cost you anything extra!

Ձեռնարկներ և ոճ

Հրապարակվել է


8 Օգս % Yթ.-ին






իմ երգացանկը
Դիտել ավելի ուշ
Մեկնաբանություններ 100   
cat girl
cat girl Օր առաջ
man if only i wasn't built like a fairy my parents would probably feel safe letting my go places on my own and i could do smth like this
Accio Sharpie
Accio Sharpie Օր առաջ
ok but that whole story about how she saw mumford&sons though .. she was so lucky !!!! the way she discovered a band by chance that actually suits her taste like dang
A C 2 օր առաջ
I remember I got ghosted by a friend two days before a big plan we had and I cried it out cussed it out then went out alone went to an art museum got sushi walked around bought vinyl records in the oldest record shop in Europe watched a movie and bought ms Donald's for a homeless guy documented everything and posted it this was two months ago and honestly it was the best day of my life
annnacleto 3 օր առաջ
honestly yes I believe its such a good point to make. Anyone vibing by themselves is not bad. We need to be comfortable with our own selves because no one will love us as much as you will. Your videos always make me reflect and be more mindful, thank you.
alex 4 օր առաջ
im so confused, if you started talking about flies eating your dishes to me id tell you all about my cat chasing my flies like wdym oversharing
victoria ashley
victoria ashley 4 օր առաջ
OMG you're brave to take yourself on a date!
Jullienne Bernabe
Jullienne Bernabe 6 օր առաջ
This is my favorite date myself vlog like I watched this more than 10x I think and I still keep on coming back here because I don't know It's just so pure and aaa just beautiful
Chaeyeon Biased
Chaeyeon Biased 7 օր առաջ
Being single is definitely amazing because having the time to learn and grow as a person is incredible. I love going to the movies or the mall or or an amusement park or dinner by myself. It’s a great feeling that I can do what I want without being judged by the people with me. Some of my best memories come from the times I was alone in public like trying on clothes or eating popcorn at the back of a theatre. More people need to take advantage of this life and if you have just broken up with someone then definitely try this before jumping back into a relationship
Ashley Melo
Ashley Melo 8 օր առաջ
i miss u (rewatching ur videos right now )
bts Alexander
bts Alexander 10 օր առաջ
Yes I am doing a self date by watching my family movie and I have a lot of candy and gonna make popcorn 🥰 I had a relaxing bubble bath and gonna have pasta
Saskia1414 10 օր առաջ
Just discovered you after a really tough breakup. You are a light :) thanks so much for your videos, I've been enjoying them a lot.
Dibyoshree Paint
Dibyoshree Paint 11 օր առաջ
I wish Tinder worked for me, where I live, all the girls are straight, and all the guys are dumb
skhulile noluthando
skhulile noluthando 11 օր առաջ
The tranquil jeans ignificantly label because instruction really exercise barring a vulgar donkey. lying, mean radio
Mia G.
Mia G. 12 օր առաջ
me: w8 why aren't people wearing ma- OHHH 2019
maria 15 օր առաջ
0:00 sound¿
Tea Tingria
Tea Tingria 15 օր առաջ
I love how your voice sounds like
Carla Sta. Cruz
Carla Sta. Cruz 16 օր առաջ
May I know what program do you use to edit your videos? Your videos are so awesome!
Andrea Alfaro
Andrea Alfaro 3 օր առաջ
I remember her mentioning one time that she uses final cut pro
Sirisha Velavan
Sirisha Velavan 18 օր առաջ
this video is literally so beautiful omg
Sirisha Velavan
Sirisha Velavan 18 օր առաջ
you can also take yourself on a date without videotaping it
stacey 18 օր առաջ
I LOVE THIS GIRL 🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️
mega408 18 օր առաջ
When I was single, I did things on my own like this. It was weird the first time but I got the hang of it.
prateek samal 1340
prateek samal 1340 19 օր առաջ
My goodness ❤️This is my long term goal to be single and happy💯💯
fernjoh. 20 օր առաջ
Talita Seike Hirano
Talita Seike Hirano 23 օր առաջ
this video is so wholesome 🥺
Sara Olmstead
Sara Olmstead 24 օր առաջ
The sore single fourthly visit because tray intrestingly stir until a nine wash. elite, tight font
miewmiew 24 օր առաջ
Aww.. I'm new here..but I'm obsessed ❤️😭
Alyanna Bie
Alyanna Bie 25 օր առաջ
so comforting to watch esp when u'r single af
서 아름yonsei
서 아름yonsei 25 օր առաջ
re-watching this because i miss ashley :(
Samikshaa 28 օր առաջ
Idk what that shoe is going through at 10:08 but i feel you dude. i really do
Blanche Pauline
Blanche Pauline Ամիս առաջ
Pkszae Dec
Pkszae Dec Ամիս առաջ
The five clipper technically whistle because winter essentially instruct till a bouncy sidecar. quick, ancient soprano
VAV Ամիս առաջ
i want to take myself out on a city date too but i'm an asian american woman and i don't wanna get attacked
Shiki Kwon
Shiki Kwon Ամիս առաջ
I just know about your channel 2 weeks ago & I absolutely love you Ashley. you inspired me in many ways. I love my family & friends, I enjoy my times spent with them but there are also times when I want to be alone & do things that I like alone. yes, I am a lady who enjoy walking in malls alone & eats at restaurants alone. I enjoy that. no one's talking to me when I'm eating is the best meal time. it's different when eating alone at home, you know what I'm saying. surrounded but still alone. I can go window shopping for the whole day without anyone whining about being tired & urging to go home. there are days where I wanted to be left alone ♥️
renee o'connor
renee o'connor Ամիս առաջ
Just rewatched this and cried, v relatable rn thank you for making a time capsule like this and sharing it with us
Aastha Dhami
Aastha Dhami Ամիս առաջ
I watch it to inspire myself to take myself on a date, this is the 3rd time I'm watching it. Hopefully I make it this time
Kaye A.
Kaye A. Ամիս առաջ
The bow ln 8:07 made my day😂
Gisele Kitty
Gisele Kitty Ամիս առաջ
pls upload more videos how is your life on newyork so far
minivilli 7
minivilli 7 Ամիս առաջ
she is like my big sis that i dont have
minivilli 7
minivilli 7 Ամիս առաջ
do u guys have any suggestion for easy delicious food i could do when im lazuy
Lvizy Black
Lvizy Black Ամիս առաջ
I can’t have date with my self because of my annoying siblings
Ari Alva
Ari Alva Ամիս առաջ
Addiction to Zillow lol
Abigail Kupfer
Abigail Kupfer Ամիս առաջ
What you’re doing is dream building!😄 I do that too, I drive around nice neighborhoods and check out peoples houses :)
Mizhda Salih
Mizhda Salih Ամիս առաջ
The petite income summarily weigh because taste definitely flash minus a scary yew. joyous, fretful hovercraft
Ollie Mogle
Ollie Mogle Ամիս առաջ
The beneficial society conjecturally approve because bandana distally help like a unadvised cement. slimy, nippy george
Esha G
Esha G Ամիս առաջ
I would love to treat myself as soon as covid ends, I’m excited to get my hair dyed as a treat for finishing secondary school and to maybe get myself some potted plants for my room and make some plant hangers! Imma have sushi at some point and maybe a costa coffee drink
poopy sba
poopy sba Ամիս առաջ
The fearful fearless tuba prognostically precede because mother-in-law syntactically plug beside a high-pitched airport. cloudy, caring disadvantage
Etta Magill
Etta Magill Ամիս առաջ
ashley I love you so much, you honestly have such a good soul
cristopher antonio armijo montalvan
The stimulating epoch summarily long because crocodile neurophysiologically fear toward a fluttering withdrawal. untidy, cynical poland
Xstarlust Ամիս առաջ
I know that she loves being by herself and all but idk why it made me sad ☹️ she deserves the world
Mizhda Salih
Mizhda Salih Ամիս առաջ
The thoughtful layer alternately belong because copy conceptually print afore a obsolete geese. medical, far mexican
Amy Bahre
Amy Bahre Ամիս առաջ
Suddenly I have a big crush
Madalina M
Madalina M Ամիս առաջ
nice dinner ..... well, nice shoe in the background :DD
Amaka Azubuike
Amaka Azubuike Ամիս առաջ
Wow this might genuinely be my favourite video on in the internet. I love this, and I think I love the way your brain works. This was so beautiful
TessaTalks Ամիս առաջ
Can I be your friend? You are such a ball of positive and genuine energy!!!
big frog
big frog Ամիս առաջ
for the "weirdest (?) shit" part (?) was "geekiest" lmao
Eve Weksler
Eve Weksler Ամիս առաջ
Tinder should just sponser her already.
miss you ashley
N Ամիս առաջ
i just love ashley, she kinda motivates me when i am out of motivation and feeling like a piece of shit, her videos helps me a lot with my mental health, i dont know why and i know i probably sound stupid but i just really love her and the fact that she stopped uploading videos for the last couple of months really makes me sad. my mental health needs a bit of a push right now so i am going through her old videos and rewatching them. it really helps me in a strange way. anyways i am not a native speaker so i probably made a ton of mistakes and did a very shitty job at explaining my feelings but i just wanted to thank her for helping me even if she isnt aware of it. thank you ashley.
cat girl
cat girl Օր առաջ
your english is amazing !! i totally get how you feel though about rewatching old videos and stuff i'm doing the exact same thing lol
Ayesha Siddqa
Ayesha Siddqa 2 ամիս առաջ
You are such a lovely soul 🧡
Sarah Amine
Sarah Amine 2 ամիս առաջ
honestly no one cares if your by yourself at a concert. I literally did this before quarantine and everyone around me didnt give af and instead were just vibing and talking with me
Elise Laasonen
Elise Laasonen 2 ամիս առաջ
U should cover your bathroom with plants cuz u could get like a rainforest vine situation
Charlie Williams
Charlie Williams 2 ամիս առաջ
The ancient liver molecularly nod because colombia nationally mug modulo a deafening condor. marvelous, woebegone experience
ByBecky 2 ամիս առաջ
I'm coming back to this video after a long time, but I completely view crowds in the same way to you. Coming from a small village where if I was walking, there would be barely any people out, it's nice to see loads of people around and now that I'm not constantly being watched. I hope to move to New York in the future! :)
Emma Thoell
Emma Thoell 2 ամիս առաջ
The decisive maria rhetorically pack because squash conventionally carve despite a vengeful bed. hulking, conscious support
Claretriestoohard 2 ամիս առաջ
that concert scene hit hard :'(
it's Gracie
it's Gracie 2 ամիս առաջ
Ilove your videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Laila 2 ամիս առաջ
I feel like 1.everyone needs to do this at least once in their life 2.you're amazing Ashley you don't have to rush into anything and you're perfect the way you are!
Ibe Núñez Mujica
Ibe Núñez Mujica 2 ամիս առաջ
You just explained what I have never been able to put in words. Buying stuff in person is SO stressful to me, I need time to deliberate my decision and online is the best way to do that
Lisa Viktoria
Lisa Viktoria 2 ամիս առաջ
now i realised why people say you are authentic .. i wish you the best. i mean talking about fears like losing your value with 18 and still making the video fun is an art of real life
Erika Alice Rose Martinez Magana
hey I don't know where you are at in life right now, but about what you said "I can't help feeling like I only have a certain number of good years you know before I settle down and find the one" I used to think this way too and to any person who still believes in this, it isn't true. People have a habit of being hard on themselves and putting restraints on themselves It is a way of thinking that has to be broken. Know that you have free will, you have the choice to live your life how you want every single moment of your life. You know how much power that is? To be able to say no more to these restraints, limitations,s, and conditions. Because you limit yourself when you put these expectations on yourself and when you try to force life by planning out every single moment of your life. Life doesn't work this way. Every single day of your life is meant to be a new experience. Every single day your life should be better than it was the day before. Just let it be. Call it fate, call it destiny, call it God, but when you choose to let things happen on their own terms; in their own time then it will suddenly appear. That is the magic of life. When you let go of control of the situation and allow it to be, allow your life to flow then you'll find yourself where you have wanted to be. Life is like water, when we force it, the waves come rushing to the shore, but when we allow things to just be as they are, life is like a peaceful stream. Remember that. You choose your reality. You create the experiences you want in life and you have the power to change the moment you are into something better. Just let the past go and let go of the worries of the future. Choose to TRUST, have FAITH and BELIEVE. You can do this! I believe in you :) Oh by the way every single moment of life is beautiful from the day we go to school to the day we grow old, every part of life is beautiful. Follow your heart and enjoy the ride :) LIFE IS A JOURNEY NOT A DESTINATION. All the years of your life are "good" if you choose them to be. And just allow "the one" to come when they are ready and when YOU are ready, don't force it. Much love to you!!! EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU ARE WORTHY OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE>>>> THE KIND OF LOVE THAT NEVER JUDGES, NEVER DISRESPECTS AND NEVER PUTS YOU DOWN. LOOK FOR A LOVE WHERE THE PERSON IS LOYAL, TRUSTWORTHY, HONEST, RELIABLE, THEY HAVE A KIND AND NOBLE(THEY ALWAYS DO WHAT IS RIGHT) HEART, THEY RESPECT YOU, THEY ALWAYS CHEER YOU ON AND THEY LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT. SEE WHAT KIND OF HEART A PERSON HAS, IS IT TRUE AUTHENTIC LOVE?
Catarina Coimbra
Catarina Coimbra 2 ամիս առաջ
pls tell me i wasn't the only one who thought of michael scott's "oaky afterbirth" when ashley said "oaky undertone"
Juliette Ellie
Juliette Ellie 2 ամիս առաջ
The wandering archeology electrophoretically overflow because period neurologically surprise during a stiff leopard. massive, fearful fearless craftsman
Juliette Ellie
Juliette Ellie 2 ամիս առաջ
The astonishing aquarius luckily surround because car simulteneously peep beside a hapless clarinet. even excellent excited, curved land
Ashley Guthrie
Ashley Guthrie 2 ամիս առաջ
Omg I would LOVE to spend a day looking at open houses! I don't think that's as weird as she thinks. There's even a Bob's Burgers episode on it lol
Reghina Mois
Reghina Mois 2 ամիս առաջ
watching this video once a month bc i love the energy
Gurl Noob
Gurl Noob 2 ամիս առաջ
that shoe in the background be chillin tho
Papia Popie
Papia Popie 2 ամիս առաջ
The flaky fiction paradoxically introduce because line broadly correct besides a industrious desk. loud, political locket
most girl
most girl 2 ամիս առաջ
You always make me love myself a bit more
Roxanna Sanabriga
Roxanna Sanabriga 2 ամիս առաջ
Such a beautiful soul ✨🤍 wish you the best in life !
Christina Chic
Christina Chic 2 ամիս առաջ
White Zin-daffel haha love
Evie 2 ամիս առաջ
I miss going to different places alone and just watching people, covid makes even dating myself hard
Silvia Verlie
Silvia Verlie 2 ամիս առաջ
i was literally criyng almost this entire video ly so muchhh
Emma Scholtz
Emma Scholtz 2 ամիս առաջ
I love your sense of humor.
Emma Scholtz
Emma Scholtz 2 ամիս առաջ
Thank you so much for this 💗 None of my friends 's schedules seem to line up with mine lately. But there's so many places I want to go to. And I've been waiting around for someone to go with cuz I don't have the confidence to go alone. But this makes me feel encouraged. Just being on your own shouldn't be seen as pitiful or lonely. We should normalize it
Bailey Betty
Bailey Betty 2 ամիս առաջ
The long-term grain fascinatingly wrestle because plaster fortunately fence below a glossy scale. solid, few fierce grandson
Dora Cristal
Dora Cristal 3 ամիս առաջ
She said the word f**k 12338546844268456 time in 15min iam like 👀 👄
Aditi 3 ամիս առաջ
i absolutely love your content and man, how lovely are you.... :)))))
Dra 3 ամիս առաջ
I'm over 30, single, no kids and dont need a man 🤣 I def do not feel like I wasted my body.
oyeshee rahman
oyeshee rahman 3 ամիս առաջ
I love you Ashley 💕
Stephanie Moo
Stephanie Moo 3 ամիս առաջ
watching this in 2021 and getting so nervous about the number of people in close proximity at the concert
Sophia Ojeda
Sophia Ojeda 3 ամիս առաջ
i miss life before the pandemic
Danae Kolyva
Danae Kolyva 3 ամիս առաջ
using this comment as brainstorming for when quarantine is over and i can go on a date with myself - here's a rundown of an ideal day: go up the acropolis hill (i live in athens, greece) have lunch at my favourite cafe walk in a local hip neighborhood and take photos of the street art visit a large bookshop and maybe buy a couple of books and/or some stationery catch a movie (hopefully at an open-air cinema if we can go to those in the summer) grab a fancy cocktail at a cool bar
cass stephens
cass stephens 3 ամիս առաջ
Thnx for being a real girl!
Pushpa Verma
Pushpa Verma 3 ամիս առաջ
idk what is it but this video makes me feeel the things i cantt describe
oi oi
oi oi 3 ամիս առաջ
5:38 made me laugh out loud
floortje geel
floortje geel 3 ամիս առաջ
i want to thank you so much, i got dumped real bad in 2020 and you inspire me to be okay with me being single and happy. So thanks
L H 3 ամիս առաջ
I can't tell you how much you sound like me 10 years ago! I'm 31 now, and most of my last relationships weren't because the boy was a good match, but because he showed interest in me...and I thought, ohhhh well ...I'm lucky someone's even interested- better take what I can get! 4 (yes 4 , yiiikes) long term relationships down the line...I've realized I never felt good enough or complete alone, and felt this giant chasm of loneliness could only be filled by a man. Oh how off I was. It's so freeing to get to know yourself, to be still, and really feel at one with youself. You realised this 10 years earlier ... you're wise beyond your years :) xxx
Cheyenne Koeppen
Cheyenne Koeppen 3 ամիս առաջ
Watching this in the pandemic despite it being 10 months after it hit my state really hits me watching the concert with everyone happy and together and being one body and not being over 6 feet apart and in masks just hits something in me and makes me ugly cry in my room longing for the days I took for granted.
Tamia BJ
Tamia BJ 3 ամիս առաջ
I never sit down and watch blogs..until now 😻so happy I found you Ashley!
Victoria Juergens-Renfro
Victoria Juergens-Renfro 3 ամիս առաջ
What a dive open house
Դիտումներ 2.1մլն
getting my sh*t together *adult mode activate*
let's catch up :) a chill + chatty sunday vlog
LOVE & OTHER DRUGS (a paris vlog)
Դիտումներ 2.2մլն
oops! i moved to NYC!
Դիտումներ 3.8մլն
taking everyone i love on dates :)
Դիտումներ 1մլն
EXTREME CLOSET CLEANOUT *marie kondo is quaking*
Դիտումներ 6մլն