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how to find your style + the confidence to wear it 

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In this chatty video, I answer one of my most asked questions: how do I find my style and the confidence to wear what I want? I break it down into steps, from assessing what clothes you already wear the most in your wardrobe, to finding aesthetic inspiration, building a moodboard, and tips for going shopping and styling outfits.
yellow top: princess polly (bit.ly/2G2NuM7)
shorts: abrand (bit.ly/2Wevg49)
heart necklace: vanessa mooney (similar: bit.ly/2I6dsyj)
thin choker: mejuri (bit.ly/2QvwTV2)
heart choker: melody ehsani (similar: bit.ly/2Lyk50y)
i also have an inspo account @bestdressedinspo :)
what’s your name? ashley
what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
how old are you? 21 (born in 1998)
how tall are you? 5'5"
what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
what equipment do you use to film?
➭ main camera: panasonic lumix gh5s (amzn.to/2Nb0W1z)
➭ 12-35mm lens (amzn.to/2JiSrz7)
➭ mic: rode videomic pro+ (amzn.to/2QHfZBU)
➭ vlog camera: canon powershot g7x mark ii amzn.to/2DfL4cZ
➭ canon m50 (amzn.to/2Dp1bnk)
➭ editing: final cut pro
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Jacqueline Matte
Jacqueline Matte 59 րոպե առաջ
I have my style, it’s just a lot of it consists of dresses that I fear are too fancy or elegant for casual life and that people will think I’m overdressed
Jacqueline Matte
Jacqueline Matte Ժամ առաջ
“would I be confident in that outfit” Girl I’m not confident in anything. I’m not confident breathing.
Jacqueline Matte
Jacqueline Matte Ժամ առաջ
I’m like a mix of a lot of things, I have no trouble finding my style personally
Julia M
Julia M 22 ժամ առաջ
I really miss her videos :\
Nghiệp Y Ly
Nghiệp Y Ly Օր առաջ
I'm trying to improve my listening skills in English and then I found out your videos. huhu Your speech is so fast, I can't catch it
Anna Schmelz
Anna Schmelz Օր առաջ
I was not expecting to hear about Jesus' abs XDD
Madison Lafever
Madison Lafever 2 օր առաջ
What I wear: Hoodies and Sweatpants 👍😀. I’m actually trying to figure out my style rn so...
Cleo Gibson
Cleo Gibson 2 օր առաջ
evrytime I leave my room in the morning my entire family criticizes my outfits. I'm just so done. I feel like I cant do anything right.
alicia 2 օր առաջ
I have a style but dont have the clothes to show it 🙃
Kai Ling Ang
Kai Ling Ang 3 օր առաջ
When there's styles that you want to try out but: 1. You have no opportunities to try them out or wear them because you stay inside 24/7 2. Your body doesn't fit into the kind of clothes that you want to wear 3. The weather doesn't allow for it (like goddamn i sweat in my gossamer thin t-shirt and denim shorts in this 35°C weather)
Carlos Bernardo
Carlos Bernardo 4 օր առաջ
I have a style but my bank acct doesn't want it
georgeslady 4 օր առաջ
When you can't choose between indie, the aesthetic tiktok account aesthetic or cottagecore: 👁️👄👁️
fanlarryingaf 4 օր առաջ
I wish I could do this but... ✨ QUARANTINE ✨
jimin's wife
jimin's wife 5 օր առաջ
I love fashion, I love clothes, It's a really amazing thing...I love fairy vibe and dark academia vibe also grunge vibe, 90s vibe...I can't choose so I decide to mix it up or it depends on my mood...
expastelline _Sof
expastelline _Sof 5 օր առաջ
when you're scared of judgement and the only clothes you feel like youself in are not "socially acceptable"
Sasha Merbis
Sasha Merbis 8 օր առաջ
“Abso-fucking-lutely” Need I say more?
Hey Supergirl
Hey Supergirl 8 օր առաջ
My problem is i have a few styles that I really like. I love elegant/classy, streetwear, cottagecore and just casual stuff and i have no idea which one is most me or in which i feel the most confortable. Or even 'would i wear this or do I only like the style?' I am really bad at fashion and i really really don't know how i can find my style, because i just seriously do not know anything. I don'teven know what o personally like...help?
vandana joshi
vandana joshi 10 օր առաջ
I am that person who spends too long in trial room and Rarely buys anything because I just don't feel like it's my style but I always get embarrassed because the sales employees are looking or my friends start complaining that I was too picky . They would say it was ok to buy something that we were not 100% sure about and all this had made me anxious about shopping 😭😭😭
Dino T-rex Game Yes im cheap
I know my style but the problem is MY PARENTS...
PQS Digital IT
PQS Digital IT 11 օր առաջ
Thanks a lot. You speak so fast. Thank you again.
Schüler der Philosophie und Ökonomie
Actually the fashion disaster looked better, just my taste lol
Feli N.
Feli N. 12 օր առաջ
The sad thing is that I’m not allowed to buy new clothes :(
Feli N.
Feli N. 12 օր առաջ
Lol i feel confident in oversized clothes
Sana 13 օր առաջ
I just wanted to share a life saver tip with all my fellow " It looked good on the model but not on me" gang: Take a kibbe body type quiz. I'm sure u are aware that certain clothes suite certain body types much better than it does on others. Now I'm not talking about the whole fruits and vegetable fiasco of "apple shape body" or "pear shape body". That's just.... stupid.(ー_ー゛) We need to understand that our bone structure plays a huge role on how a certain type of clothing style looks on us. After taking the quiz and watching some yt videos about it you will slowly understand why the edgy, cool and gothic style which u love looks wierd on u, or why the mature, office worker, blazer look looked good on that Instagram model but not when u wore it. I've learnt a LOT after taking the king's body type quiz and understood the ways of clothes, their material and everything about my body from head to toe. It basically made me love my body for what it is and showed me that I just needed to understand it better to be able to dress myself the way I wanted to. I really hope that this helps u in your style journey and ya all the best!( ꈍᴗꈍ)
Olga 13 օր առաջ
Thick Junimo
Thick Junimo 14 օր առաջ
My biggest problems are shoes. I just cant wrap my head around what type of shoe would look trendy or boring or outdated with an outfit. Also, I dont care about jewellery that much but I know that I should.
Shraddha Jani
Shraddha Jani 15 օր առաջ
Everything is just so aesthetic in her house and video
Becca Shyne
Becca Shyne 15 օր առաջ
Ok no hate to gay girls but whenever i dress how i wanna dress (like business b and sherlock holmes at the same time kinda vibes) bc of my pixie cut i look lesbian. And I’m not. So i don’t know what to do.... 😭
Isabella Talamante
Isabella Talamante 15 օր առաջ
thank u!! this really helped me;)
Reign Aresta
Reign Aresta 15 օր առաջ
so I've been on my third marathon of all her videos this week, and I just realized my addiction to gingham was from her.
Freya Hoge
Freya Hoge 16 օր առաջ
i really do want to, its just that leggings and sweaters, are so dang comfy! XD
*My Name*
*My Name* 16 օր առաջ
I can’t choose between *✨baddie✨* and *✨streetwear✨* Or maybe I’ll just create a new aesthetic called *badwear* 😜😝
Anna Watkins
Anna Watkins 18 օր առաջ
pls don't hate on urself you're so pretty :)
Girl Peas - The Single Life
My style doesn't fit my belly 🥲
Alvin Benedicto
Alvin Benedicto 19 օր առաջ
who else is watching it and be like: Omg I just wear my clothes because I don't have my own...
Nina Goldsmith
Nina Goldsmith 19 օր առաջ
I *only* wear solid color cropped tops, black leggings, and black ankle boots or sandals. Comfort is definitely a priority for me- I can’t even focus on anything if I’m uncomfortable. I hate texture/itchy/uncomfortable fabrics
pinklemonayde 19 օր առաջ
First time here, and I'm here to stay! Thank you for the helpful video ❤️
Something cool like 'Beat Vengeance'
I saw confidence and I clicked faster then sonic
Brianna Beasley
Brianna Beasley 20 օր առաջ
I wear like grey black blue orange and if i run of those would be purple or pink
Brianna Beasley
Brianna Beasley 20 օր առաջ
Im girl who love short but i like kawwai and asthic but i kind like some emo so it hard btw im still watching video i edit this to see if i found it
M H 21 օր առաջ
“You should have to change to fit your clothing” 😌✨
Margaret Margaret
Margaret Margaret 22 օր առաջ
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Alice Brenham
Alice Brenham 22 օր առաջ
but why does she look good in everything, hmm
hedgehog 23 օր առաջ
Why do you literally make me so happy and nervous at the same time????
Bellky Cortez
Bellky Cortez 23 օր առաջ
Thank you princess.
Iris Dunn
Iris Dunn 23 օր առաջ
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Selina 25 օր առաջ
to everyone here: if you can’t decide between multiple styles, just combine them. And you can pull off any style with any body type!
Cabra 06
Cabra 06 25 օր առաջ
I don't look like it because I inherit my clothing but I would be a mix between dark academia and space-core
Dangerous Cactus
Dangerous Cactus 26 օր առաջ
LOL the subtitles at 0:12 and I quote “cry’s internally”
Heather Murphy
Heather Murphy 26 օր առաջ
You’re a bloody god send. I want to be your friend ugh
bibidibobidi 26 օր առաջ
I cant be the only one who hates most of their wardrobe. Why? because I didn’t choose most of it, my parents bought it for me in other countries when they’d travel for work (cuz quality clothes are too expensive in my country) except it seems like they don’t really know what I like to wear and my style is too complicated to explain so then i end up with clothes I never wear and only wear the same clothes over and over again because they are comfy and I kinda like them. But then some of them were chosen by me but it was like 3 years ago so my taste changed a lot between being a tween and a teen because I dug deeper in fashion and found what I liked
Escenas de Cine
Escenas de Cine 26 օր առաջ
loved the video!!! exactly what i needed!!
Clarisa 27 օր առաջ
i miss her so much
Ellie 27 օր առաջ
Victoria Buckingham
Victoria Buckingham 28 օր առաջ
Such great tips and encouragement. Thank you 🥺 trying to gain the confidence to dress how I want to!
csgaiao33 28 օր առաջ
I love nothing about my clothes. I feel like a boy...
Dana van Logchem
Dana van Logchem 28 օր առաջ
I already know that I would want to wear dark/light academia clothes but my wardrobe exist of second hand colorful hoodies and blue skinny jeans 😐
yarinbruner 28 օր առաջ
Amazing video! Thanks
Kahlila Cassandra Tizon
Kahlila Cassandra Tizon 29 օր առաջ
when you have decent looking clothes in your closet but you're not allowed to wear them: :')
Estele Roemmich
Estele Roemmich 29 օր առաջ
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Morgan Salzano
Morgan Salzano Ամիս առաջ
Yes exactly! I want to wear dresses so much, but I always get a comment like "Oh you're dressed up." and then I don't want to wear it anymore.
Magical Potions
Magical Potions Ամիս առաջ
When you love the way crop tops and tank tops look on other girls but you're fat: 👁💧👄💧👁
Mariah Flores
Mariah Flores Ամիս առաջ
thank you for helping me find my style :D - Mariah Flores
Conscious Now What
Conscious Now What Ամիս առաջ
That's the most helpful fashion video of youtube
Talia Smith
Talia Smith Ամիս առաջ
"Fashion disaster to fashionable disaster" LOL
Rose Covers
Rose Covers Ամիս առաջ
What I learned from here: -I'm so bad at reading and pronouncing -it's past-ool not past-hell -it's pen-ter-est not pine-trest
VUG-MAC-17-2010 Marycelia Agim
so accurate and relatable ☺️
Sakshi Soni
Sakshi Soni Ամիս առաջ
Well you lucky guys I have the confidence to wear all dresses but my family would not let me wear it 🙄. The design of clothes that I am allowed to wear is equivalent to the strictest dress code of any school of your city.
I suddenly bumped here today and you made my day girl ❤💕
Adrian Mak
Adrian Mak Ամիս առաջ
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Pratham Gagale
Pratham Gagale Ամիս առաջ
I just want something comfy and iconic done example BILLIE EILLESH style (edit )it's called Billie eilish
Tanvi Deshmukh
Tanvi Deshmukh Ամիս առաջ
i'm okay with my style now coz i've been trying what you said for a while but,,, i'm still kinda new to caring a little bit about how i look so i always end up feeling overdressed. what dyou think i should do lol pls help like no pressures but like hELP
nani auntuh
nani auntuh Ամիս առաջ
Rewatching this video since i am missing Ashley talking♡ Take care Ashley.
The RoSphere
The RoSphere Ամիս առաջ
I don't think ugly sweatpants and big hoodies is a style... Yea the first tip isn't working for me- Not going to lie though my week's outfits is just black/white t-shirt, a hoodie and sweatpants. Nothing like my dream style-
Nadia Covarrubias
Nadia Covarrubias Ամիս առաջ
also if you want too and have cash on hand get some cheap jewelry from aesthetics you like from shein or romwe or somewhere else and wear them with an outfit you have that you think matches the pieces of jewelry aesthetic then determine which jewelry you like more and feel more like yourself in (hope this helps ly)
Nadia Covarrubias
Nadia Covarrubias Ամիս առաջ
I also recomend just browsing on online stores and see what clothes really stand out that may help identify what you like
Junie Ամիս առաջ
i have a good fashion sense... ... i'm just broke.
KLC 28
KLC 28 Ամիս առաջ
Raise your hand if you think Ashely should be a costume designer for films and movies because she's good at picking clothes and she went to film school
* Skellicatt *
* Skellicatt * Ամիս առաջ
This feels like English class, idk why ;-;
Caca Sunarto
Caca Sunarto Ամիս առաջ
2 years later ~ came back and rewatched this video now that I'm in my first year of uni, living by myself and trying to find my style! thx again for the advice big sister ashley xx
Grace Ամիս առաջ
another idea instead of the keeping track of what you actually wear step, you could also see if something sparks joy. because you may have some dresses and love them but don’t actually have the confidence to wear it.
Nore Ամիս առաջ
I live with my dad and my mom its the one that always buy my brother's and my clothes, so, I always wanted to have clothes that I selected, outfits that I put together.
KA LAdy Ամիս առաջ
My style is Goth/dark aesthetic/light aesthetic Do any of you know stores that may have my aesthetic? Online or not is fine
JieJay Ամիս առաջ
also another tip: go and live China or South Korea for a while and you will be hella trendy
Anna Crijanovschi
Anna Crijanovschi Ամիս առաջ
First of all u have to make money
Anissa Ամիս առաջ
I only have Sofia the first shirt...
Majo Co
Majo Co Ամիս առաջ
8:52 Me about to enter to Med School: 👁👄👁
runway Ամիս առաջ
Thank you so much for mentioning how most of us have an eclectic style when we’re first trying to figure out what types of aesthetics we love and reflect our most authentic selves. I personally love vintage, minimalism, dark & light academia, and also a basic outfit consisting of a crop top and high waisted bottoms. I’m definitely figuring out how to wind them in together that is uniquely me. 💕
Sanna B
Sanna B Ամիս առաջ
What if you really love an outfit but you’re too shy to actually wear it? Then what do you do?
Dominika Blackrose
Dominika Blackrose Ամիս առաջ
Maybe wear it at home? Like in your room? Somewhere were you can have some alone time with just yourself and that outfit, you need to really feel yourself in your outfit ^^, and then try going somewhere small in it ^^, like maybe for a stroll at the park ^^, and when you are more confident, try going to a store with it ^^
RebeccaXxxxlove Ամիս առաջ
I don’t have money to buy clothes the Aesthetic i want because the money, but i’m waiting til i have money, then i’ll buy clothes at shein
Tekla _
Tekla _ Ամիս առաջ
Okay okay okay. I wanna know if anyone is in the same situation as me. So I'm a HS student and I haven't really expressed myself over the years. Basically everyone thinks of me as the boring nerd girl when in reality I'm very interesting thank you very much but idk how to put that energy out towards the world. And I have this thought in my mind that says that if I, a person perceived as boring, wear something that's interesting and cool, that would seem "weird". And logically I know that not dressing boring is literally a way of not seeming boring, but this is still holding me back. Anyone else?
Mia Campagna
Mia Campagna Ամիս առաջ
“sOmeBodY’s dResSiNg uP toDaYyY” I can relate😂
Aditi Pandey
Aditi Pandey Ամիս առաջ
This really helped..damn you are now my new favourite creator ily mwah bye cya later
Soft Girl
Soft Girl Ամիս առաջ
Check out The Concept Wardrobe, it can really help with this process!
Vaishnavi Pednekar
Vaishnavi Pednekar Ամիս առաջ
You almost brainwashed me into starting my insta fashion page because I need my space !
Bea R
Bea R Ամիս առաջ
Anyone else actually love fashion but is not confident enough to wear anything because you don't want to look "overdressed" or get asked "wHo aRe yOu tRyInG tO iMpReSs?"
Natalie Poulsen
Natalie Poulsen Ամիս առաջ
Out here taking notes at 5.30AM in quarantine like I'm about to take an exam and my life depends on it. Like who's gonna see my outfits? My roommate who also wear sweats and a t-shirt everyday? Most likely.
David Jarrah
David Jarrah Ամիս առաջ
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Ayah Awad
Ayah Awad Ամիս առաջ
I dont like any of the clothes I have and I only have like 4 clothes because my mom forgets that I exist
Anonymous_Grey Ամիս առաջ
When your style is slightly witch / cracked child 👁️👄👁️
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